Friday, July 3, 2009
decisions .
frends .
does this two words come together to you ?
does ur frend in any way affect the decisions that u make ?
or does ur decision u make affects your frend in any way ?
becuz in life we make many frends
and we oso have to make alot of decisions.
so does frends influences one person
to make the decision that the person make ?
the answer would be yes. .
alot of people make decision based on wat other people think or
wat other people wans.
regardless of how they may act or feel.
even if the decision they make may be
not wat their instincts tell them to do,
they would still do it.
hence, the occurance of peer pressure.
to me, i feel the decision made becuz frends wans it to make is ....
unwise ?
becuz... a frend may understand u only so much ,
a frend may thinks he/she is doing it for ur benefit
but the truth is, only u can tell wats best for you!
im not saying frends cannot be trusted,
its juz somethings cannot be decided
juz becuz of a persons point of view.
i may suggest listening to each of the suggestions and advice
frends give, and then slowly decide,
on which to take it further.
watever ur answer or decision would be ,
it shud be in ur own hands.
fr u will be picking up the shit if anything goes wrong,
so go with ur heart!
frends can only do so much ~
its up to urself .
